A simple way to eclipse the negativity from your life!
Do you have negative people in your life whom you cannot avoid? If you do, this post is for you!
Early this morning I walked with my friend Wendy like normal. Today we discussed how she deals with negative people in her life.
She told me a story about her sister, an ER nurse in Canada. Her sister had a coworker who was constantly blaming her for everything that was not right, no matter how small. Her sister finally found a way to stop this person in her tracks. She would stop, stand close to the offensive woman, look her in the eyes, and say, “You sure are having a bad day!” The woman would get quiet and walk away.
Wendy had a negative person in her life. She coped in the same way after her sister told her this trick. She also found it worked with her children when they were growing up.
I thought about this for a while.
This trick works because it openly addresses the real reason for the offensive person’s behavior, that he or she is having a bad day.
Parents, this trick works with children. It makes them stop and think about why you think they are having a bad day, about their behavior.
It is best to avoid negative people, especially if you work to overcome depression and anxiety or PTSD. But if you cannot avoid them, use this technique to eclipse their negativity from your life.
Parents, use this technique to help your child understand that his behavior is impacting people around him negatively. It may encourage your child to stop and think about how he is acting.
Soar like an eagle over life’s storms by eclipsing the negativity in your life!
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I like this advice and I am sure I will have opporutnity to put it use! Thanks for sharing!