{"id":12177,"date":"2018-07-14T23:19:12","date_gmt":"2018-07-15T01:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.nearariver.com\/?p=12177"},"modified":"2026-09-10T11:23:09","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T15:23:09","slug":"answer-near-a-river-bj-rae-eagle-encouraging-words","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/answer-near-a-river-bj-rae-eagle-encouraging-words\/","title":{"rendered":"The Unexpected Answer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><em>When someone gives you an unexpected answer, do you assume he is wrong?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12178 size-medium\" title=\"Encouraging you to accept an unexpected answer on near a river.\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/unexpected-answer-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Encouragement to accept an unexpected answer on near a river.\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/unexpected-answer-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/unexpected-answer-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/unexpected-answer-144x144.jpg 144w, https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/unexpected-answer.jpg 351w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A teacher was teaching first grade math.\u00a0 She asked her student Lee, \u201cIf I give you one apple and one apple and another apple, how many apples will you have?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Within a few seconds, Lee confidently replied, \u201cFour!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dismayed, Lee\u2019s teacher had been expecting him to answer with three.\u00a0 Disappointed, she thought that maybe Lee did not listen to her question.<\/p>\n<p>So she repeated her question.\u00a0 \u201cLee, listen carefully\u201d, she began. \u201cIf I give you one apple and one apple and another apple, how many apples will you have?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Noticing the disappointment on his teacher\u2019s face, Lee calculated again. He was searching for the answer that would make his teacher happy. Again, having recalculated, he answered \u201cFour!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lee noticed that his teacher still looked disappointed in his answer.\u00a0 Then his teacher remembered his love of grapes. \u201cMaybe he doesn\u2019t like apples and that is making him lose focus,\u201d she thought.<\/p>\n<p>This time with a twinkling in her eyes, she asked Lee once again, \u201cIf I give you one grape and one grape and another grape, how many grapes will you have?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Seeing his teacher happy, Lee calculated on his fingers again. Lee\u2019s teacher was happy because she had found a new approach and was hopeful it might succeed.<\/p>\n<p>This time, with no hesitation, Lee gave the correct answer, \u201cThree!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now Lee\u2019s teacher smiled victoriously.\u00a0 Her approach was successful and she wanted to congratulate herself. 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