{"id":2995,"date":"2017-08-19T14:34:36","date_gmt":"2017-08-19T19:34:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nearariver.com\/?p=2995"},"modified":"2026-09-10T11:23:09","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T15:23:09","slug":"answer-violence-near-river-bj-rae-eagle-encouraging-words","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/answer-violence-near-river-bj-rae-eagle-encouraging-words\/","title":{"rendered":"The Answer to Violence!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><em>What is the answer to violence in the world?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Violence begins in childhood, with the delicate balance of negative and positive factors in a child\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<p>As children, we all need positive factors to balance the negatives.\u00a0 Positive factors include opportunities for success, supportive adults, and a resilient temperament while negative factors include child abuse and neglect, chaotic neighborhoods, and psychological problems. When the negatives outweigh the positives, a child is more likely to become an angry and violent person. Kathryn Seifert, Ph.D. explained this clearly in her book, <a href=\"https:\/\/books.google.com\/books\/about\/HOW_CHILDREN_BECOME_VIOLENT.html?id=An98Q-iHlygC\"><u>How Children Become Violent<\/u><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>As Ecclesiastes 8:9 states, \u201cMan has exercised authority over another man to his hurt.\u201d \u00a0We must enforce healthy boundaries to prevent those without a good balance of positives and negatives in childhood from hurting others.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">What is the answer to violence?<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">The human connection and love are the answer to violence!<\/h4>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.scienceandnonduality.com\/the-opposite-of-addiction-is-connection\/\">human connection<\/a> creates bonds between us and improves psychological problems. It enables us to cope with issues in healthy ways and It can also counteract the negatives in a potentially violent person\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<p>We all know the current state of the world.\u00a0 But what if the following were true?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>We put into place programs to identify young children at risk for violence later in life.<\/li>\n<li>These children are given positive mentors and loving role models.\u00a0 Therefore, they know they have a safe place to go to.<\/li>\n<li>These children know they have a safe place to go where they are loved.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If these were true, children would not grow up to be angry and violent.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4>***<\/h4>\n<p>Each one of us can help make the world less violent by simply being more loving.\u00a0 We can mentor a young child who has more negatives than positives in his or her life.\u00a0 And we can give a child unconditional love.\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/category\/power-love-near-river-bj-rae\/\">Love is the most powerful force in the universe.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>We must set clear universal boundaries, standards for acceptable behavior with severe consequences. 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As children, we all need positive factors to balance the negatives.\u00a0 Positive factors include <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/answer-violence-near-river-bj-rae-eagle-encouraging-words\/\"> Read more&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5343,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[383,2,190,550,416],"tags":[1588,2612,77,1271,1269,1328,1334,1270,1329,1337,1714,1332,1321,12,9754,1331,9755,9753,1330,1320,1273,1322,1302,1274,1323,1325,1326,1324,549,19,1275,1319,1318,716,9410,9552,436,688,1327,1336,1335,1268,689,472,1333,297,470,471,1299],"class_list":["post-2995","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-power-love-near-river-bj-rae","category-articles","category-parenting-positive-near-river","category-change-world-near-river-bj-rae-eagle","category-power-positive-thinking-near-river-bj-rae","tag-common-core-eagle-reading-book","tag-bald-eagle","tag-bj-rae","tag-books-for-children","tag-books-for-kids","tag-child-eagle-reading-book","tag-childrens-book","tag-childrens-books","tag-childrens-eagle-reading-book","tag-childrens-reading-book","tag-common-core-book","tag-common-core-reading-book","tag-core-reading-book","tag-eagle","tag-eagle-book","tag-eagle-book-for-child","tag-eagle-book-for-children","tag-eagle-book-for-kids","tag-eagle-child-book","tag-eagle-children-book","tag-eagle-childrens-book","tag-eagle-core-reading-book","tag-eagle-kid-book","tag-eagle-kids-book","tag-eagle-reading-book","tag-eagle-reading-book-for-child","tag-eagle-reading-book-for-children","tag-eagle-reading-book-for-kids","tag-eagles","tag-encouragement","tag-encouraging","tag-encouraging-childrens-book","tag-encouraging-kids-book","tag-encouraging-words","tag-for-children","tag-for-kids","tag-healthy-boundaries","tag-kathryn-seifert","tag-kid-eagle-reading-book","tag-kid-reading-book","tag-kids-book","tag-kids-books","tag-ph-d","tag-prevent-violence","tag-reading-book","tag-soar-like-an-eagle","tag-violence","tag-violent","tag-words-of-encouragement"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2995","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2995"}],"version-history":[{"count":20,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2995\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21110,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2995\/revisions\/21110"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2995"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2995"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2995"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}