{"id":645,"date":"2017-03-14T23:04:23","date_gmt":"2017-03-15T04:04:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nearariver.com\/?p=645"},"modified":"2026-09-10T11:23:08","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T15:23:08","slug":"parents-dr-kevin-leman-eagle-near-river-bj-rae-encouraging-words","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/parents-dr-kevin-leman-eagle-near-river-bj-rae-encouraging-words\/","title":{"rendered":"A Child\u2019s Ten Commandments to Parents by Dr. Kevin Leman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><em>A message to all parents from a child.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Parents, read this as though your child is speaking to you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>My hands are small; please don\u2019t expect perfection when I make a bed, draw a picture, or throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow down so that I can keep up with you.<\/p>\n<p>My eyes have not seen the world as yours have; please let me explore safely. Don\u2019t restrict me unnecessarily.<\/p>\n<p>Housework will always be there. I\u2019m only little for a short time\u2014please take time to explain things to me about\u00a0this wonderful world, and do so willingly.<\/p>\n<p>My feelings are tender; please be sensitive to my needs; don\u2019t nag me all day long. (You wouldn\u2019t want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness.) Treat me as you would like to be treated.<\/p>\n<p>I am a special gift from God; please treasure me as God intended you to do, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by, and disciplining me in a loving manner.<\/p>\n<p>I need your encouragement to grow. Please go easy on the criticism; remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.<\/p>\n<p>Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail, so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday I\u2019ll be prepared to make the kind of decisions life requires of me.<\/p>\n<p>Please don\u2019t do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn\u2019t quite measure up to your expectations. I know it\u2019s hard, but please don\u2019t try to compare me with my brother or my sister.<\/p>\n<p>Please don\u2019t be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids. Besides, it\u2019s a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very special.<\/p>\n<p>Please take me to Sunday school and church regularly, setting a good example for me to follow. I enjoy learning more about God.<\/p>\n<p>There will be storms in my life, so please enable me to soar like an <a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/eagle\">eagle<\/a> over them.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Let the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/encouraging\" slimstat=\"5\">encouraging words<\/a>\u00a0in these\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/river\">near a river\u00a0<\/a>posts help you<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">soar like an\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/eagle\" slimstat=\"5\">eagle<\/a>\u00a0above life\u2019s storms.<\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Do not let \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/small-things-near-river-bj-rae-eagle\/\">The Small Things\u201d<\/a>\u00a0ruin your life!<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">I sincerely wish you \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/beautiful-life-near-river-bj-rae-eagle-encouraging-words\/\">A Beautiful Life<\/a>\u201c.<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bobbiejrae.com\/home\/category\/financial-success-bj-rae-eagle\/page\/2\/\">You can have\u00a0financial success.<\/a><\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/special-message-bj-rae-eagle-near-river-bj-rae-encouraging-words\/\">Need a hug?<\/a><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">If you enjoyed this post, remember that BJ writes\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dictionary.com\/browse\/children\" data-slimstat=\"5\">children\u2019s<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dictionary.com\/browse\/book\" data-slimstat=\"5\">books<\/a>.<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Her\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/encouraging\" slimstat=\"5\">encouraging<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dictionary.com\/browse\/children\" data-slimstat=\"5\">children\u2019s<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/eagle\" slimstat=\"5\">eagle<\/a><\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><u><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/river\" slimstat=\"5\">near\u00a0a\u00a0river<\/a><\/u>\u00a0<u><\/u>common core\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.collinsdictionary.com\/dictionary\/english\/reading-book\" data-slimstat=\"5\">reading book<\/a><\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">is available on\u00a0Amazon.com\u00a0and\u00a0Barnesandnoble.com.<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Buy BJ\u2019s\u00a0<u><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/river\" slimstat=\"5\">near\u00a0a\u00a0river<\/a><\/u>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/encouraging\" slimstat=\"5\">encouraging\u00a0<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/eagle\" slimstat=\"5\">eagle\u00a0<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.collinsdictionary.com\/dictionary\/english\/reading-book\" data-slimstat=\"5\">reading book<\/a><\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">for a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/us\/dictionary\/english\/child\" slimstat=\"5\">child<\/a>\u00a0you care about today!<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A message to all parents from a child. Parents, read this as though your child is speaking to you&#8230; My hands are small; please don\u2019t expect perfection when I make a bed, draw a picture, or throw a ball. My <a href=\"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/parents-dr-kevin-leman-eagle-near-river-bj-rae-encouraging-words\/\"> Read more&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5013,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,190],"tags":[1588,1354,77,1271,1269,17,1328,1355,1334,1270,1329,1337,1714,1332,1321,12,1331,1330,1320,1273,1322,1302,1274,1323,1325,1326,1324,19,1275,1319,1318,716,1327,1336,1335,1268,191,1333,297,213,1299],"class_list":["post-645","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articles","category-parenting-positive-near-river","tag-common-core-eagle-reading-book","tag-10-commandments","tag-bj-rae","tag-books-for-children","tag-books-for-kids","tag-child","tag-child-eagle-reading-book","tag-childs-ten-commandments","tag-childrens-book","tag-childrens-books","tag-childrens-eagle-reading-book","tag-childrens-reading-book","tag-common-core-book","tag-common-core-reading-book","tag-core-reading-book","tag-eagle","tag-eagle-book-for-child","tag-eagle-child-book","tag-eagle-children-book","tag-eagle-childrens-book","tag-eagle-core-reading-book","tag-eagle-kid-book","tag-eagle-kids-book","tag-eagle-reading-book","tag-eagle-reading-book-for-child","tag-eagle-reading-book-for-children","tag-eagle-reading-book-for-kids","tag-encouragement","tag-encouraging","tag-encouraging-childrens-book","tag-encouraging-kids-book","tag-encouraging-words","tag-kid-eagle-reading-book","tag-kid-reading-book","tag-kids-book","tag-kids-books","tag-parent","tag-reading-book","tag-soar-like-an-eagle","tag-ten-commandments","tag-words-of-encouragement"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/645","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=645"}],"version-history":[{"count":20,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/645\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21056,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/645\/revisions\/21056"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5013"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=645"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=645"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobbiejrae.com\/nearariver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=645"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}